Making the most of being an older man with a younger woman The fact is, she fell for you, not a younger guy, and you have to play up your strengths without overcompensating or displaying any insecurities.If she’s dating an older man, there’s probably a reason, and the best you can do in this situation is make the most of what you have and who you are.
Typically, two to five years younger is acceptable, and ten years is deviant but forgivable, but twenty years? If you think about it, you can’t argue with the attraction in the freshness of youth, with more reasons falling on the physical aspects; younger means more beautiful, more energy, and a higher chance of producing healthy offspring.
Women I've interviewed between the ages of 40 and 70 largely believe men their age are interested in dating someone their own age.
Studies show older men prefer youth and beauty first for mate selection and women choose men who offer resources and stability.
The following dos and don’ts should give you a better idea how to manage your position in your May-December relationship to your best advantage. One of the main reasons that she’s with you, and not with some stud of her own age, is that younger guys often don’t hit the emotional mark.
They may have the bodies of demigods, but they can also have the emotional maturity of a walnut. Show her how even-headed you are and how readily able you are to talk about your feelings in a calm and responsive manner.