Well, even then approaching her is quite difficult. It probably happens ten times every second there lol. Going to a nightclub to meet people at all is a compromise for me. Part of the reason why I went to the college I did was because Anne Rice went there so I figured the place would be full of goth girls. I compromise so god dang much already that I don't know what more compromising I can do.
Even though the music isn't as loud as in many night clubs, it's still so loud that you have to yell to be heard and repeat everything twice. It's a scary thing, but if you are wanting them to approach you, then you can do the rejecting, and it will hurt you less. I enjoy going there for the dancing, yes, but going there to MEET people? What, settle for someone I'm not attracted to just because she's single? I know you're not suggesting these things but you have to understand how difficult all this already is....
The fashion has been in a rut for 20 years with the public still mocking and fearing Goths.
To certain vocal Goths, there is an unwritten law – that they know intimately, of course – that dictates what is and is not Goth.
The term "Whitby Goth Weekend" is sometimes used as a generic term to describe events during the week in Whitby as a whole, although the name of the event and its associated logo are registered trademarks of Jo Hampshire of Top Mum Promotions.
There is also a tendency to equate goths with vampire wannabees and the vampire-obsessed.
The Gothic sense of style has an obvious attraction; just think of the dark, romantic beauty of everything from Victorian gothic fashion to Tim Burton movies.
But for all its nocturnal charm, the Goth subculture has a very real dark side that hasn't been addressed for decades.
The main event is held in the town's largest venue Whitby Spa Pavilion (known as the Spa) and the Bizarre Bazaar 'Goth Market' is also held there and at Whitby Leisure Centre and the Brunswick Centre.
Access to the Spa in the evening requires a ticket and live bands play on both Friday and Saturday from until about midnight.